i would resist ankle weights for wetsuit divng at all costs. they create additional problems.
first, try to shed as much weight as you can. the less weight you lug around,
the less juggling you'll have to do. your goal should be being negatively bouyant
by two or three pounds at the end of the dive, at the surface, with a near-empty
tank (yes, i meant what i wrote. if you are neutral at 15 feet at the end of the dive,
you won't be able to control your ascent through that critical last 15 feet).
(i like being negatively bouyant rather than neutral at the surface because i don't like to "fight" a too-light configuration. as it is, i use 0, 2, or 4 lbs of weight, depending on my set-up)
once you got your weight down, i would get horizontal on the water colum and hold still. see which way you tilt. whichever way you tilt (back, forward, left, right, or left-back, right-forward, etc) is where you have too much weight.
shift your weight around accordingly. also, you can move your tank up or down (by
moving your BC up or down on the tank).
also, don't worry about this. you are going through one of the great processes of
diving -- getting your weight and trim right. you will get it right!