I have a 19cf with the Razor and have travelled with it a couple of times, but mostly use it right here in Florida. The 13cf bottle would be a bit easier, but with either one you'll be probably be removing the valve and putting the cylinder in checked bag while keeping your reg (or reg/valve in the Razor's case) with you in carryon. That being the case, the 19 still fits in a checked bag, but for the depths you're talking the 13 should be fine and yes certainly much better than a 6cf SpareAir.
Button SPG is fine. With either the Razor or a standard valve you should seriosly consider a transfill adaptor/hose so you can simply fill the pony from your rental tanks.
Are you planning to necklace the reg, hang it like an octo, or strap it to the pony? While I backmount mine, I think for travelling it might be much easier to sling the 13. It's small enough to attach from your front D-rings, keeping the reg bungeed to the pony, that configuration would make for much quicker and easier setup than backmount.
I necklace mine, and since I carry it left backmount, I needed a reg with the hose connector coming from the opposite side of the reg compared to typical models. I decided on an
XS Scuba Airwave because it fit the bill nicely and also happens to lay flat (I'm using a 3' Miflex hose and XS right-angle adaptor to connect to the pony). I have since tested it many times and besides breathing a little wet, seems to be a fine pony reg.
If your reg is bungeed, you won't need those limitations and can get a more standard reg.
Keep in mind, without the Razor, whatever valve/first stage rig you do, it's going to be awfully bulky in proportion to the overall size of the pony. Yoke will exaggerate that even more - I would highly recommend DIN instead if you're going to go with a more standard connection, but if your primary regset is yoke then that might not be practical.
Oh, and while the Zeagle straps are good, it's also worth considering the pony "bags" that Akona and XS make. They use a large velcro flap with a "latching" piece of velcro to attach to your camband instead of the main cylinder. When I was using a 13 and an Akona bag, I found I could simply leave the pony attached to my BC's cam band as I switched tanks. This reduces a lot of tank-switching hassle, but I found the 19 was a bit too awkward to do the same thing and had to remove it every time (I switched to the
Innovative EZ-On pony bracket for that reason).
An advantage to having the pony on the cam band is it will typically stay close and handy even if your main cylinder gets loose and starts slipping on you.