Top 10 do's & don'ts

[scbababe]

Ladies & gent's I was going thru my e-mail the other day and came across this: Top 10 do's and don'ts for men! I will list them for you so you may see what men are reading as the best strategies to try... Ladies braze your selves....

These are the writers "Top 10 DON'Ts"; Here goes...

1.Don't try being to much of a nice guy.
2.Trying to convince her to like you.
3.Looking to him or her for approval or permission. "(yeah right!)"
4.Trying to buy her affection with food & gifts.
5.Sharing how you feel to early in the relationship!
6.Not "getting" how attraction works for women.
7.Thinking it takes money & looks. "(well it does help)"
8.Giving away all your power (meaning too much info.)
9.Not knowing what to do in a situation with women.
10.Not getting help!

Although, I found these helpful for ladies as well..When I read this I said to my self, poor guys.. They have to learn this before they get the girl and if you continue to do this, if you get the girl? (meaning mariage). Boy, will loose girl! (lol).... Ironic aint it!

I'd like to hear what you guys think of this, ladies you too!

 

[ScubaFreak]

TOTALLY agree wit number 3....yet i cant help it.....


agh!

 

[Mako Mark]

number one............ Carmen Electra does NOT date Michael J Fox......

Number seven......... It helps, but only if you are looking for shallow physical gratification.

Number nine........ the only man alive that has this knowledge is Dr Bill, the SB stud.

 

[FreeFloat]

Ya know, if you're read that list in the exact opposite (like a list of "do's" instead of "don'ts") you'd be just swarmed by the ladies.

Edit: er, I think that's what i mean......

Edit the Edit: um, on second thought, forget I said anything... I'm not sure what I mean... every time I read the list I agree and disagree with different points.

 

[CathyI8205]

Another don't is "Don't apologize too much".

 

[scbababe]

number one............ Carmen Electra does NOT date Michael J Fox......
Number seven......... It helps, but only if you are looking for shallow physical gratification.
Number nine........ the only man alive that has this knowledge is Dr Bill, the SB stud.

Well Mark I don't know if any man has that skill.. We women are to complex; we usually like it when you don't know how to handle a situation, so we could tell you guys how it's done! (lol) confused yet?

Hello everyone one of the other interesting topics i've read, is knowing how to use body language and communication correctly, to make the other feel the same powerful attraction without being too agressive.

Key words i found are communication and body-language. I'ts these 2 things that are the hardest to master. You can say so much with gestures without having even said a word and by the time your ready to say it, it's to late. Your body language speaks louder than words!

 

[Nomaster]

Ladies & gent's I was going thru my e-mail the other day and came across this: Top 10 do's and don'ts for men! I will list them for you so you may see what men are reading as the best strategies to try... Ladies braze your selves....

These are the writers "Top 10 DON'Ts"; Here goes...

1.Don't try being to much of a nice guy.
2.Trying to convince her to like you.
3.Looking to him or her for approval or permission. "(yeah right!)"
4.Trying to buy her affection with food & gifts.
5.Sharing how you feel to early in the relationship!
6.Not "getting" how attraction works for women.
7.Thinking it takes money & looks. "(well it does help)"
8.Giving away all your power (meaning too much info.)
9.Not knowing what to do in a situation with women.
10.Not getting help!

Although, I found these helpful for ladies as well..When I read this I said to my self, poor guys.. They have to learn this before they get the girl and if you continue to do this, if you get the girl? (meaning mariage). Boy, will loose girl! (lol).... Ironic aint it!

I'd like to hear what you guys think of this, ladies you too!

I just get more and more confused!
I guess I'll just wish I had a life beyond diving.
Right now, I have a job that pays for diving.
That's confusing enough.

Tom

 

[simbrooks]

Firstly i think the author, not Scbababe, needs to learn to write coherently - i agree it is quite confusing the way it is phrased with double negatives and the like. I read it like this:
1. Dont try to be too much of a nice guy
2. Dont try to convince her to like you
3. Dont look for approval or permission
4. Dont try to buy her affection with food & gifts
5. Dont share how you feel too early in the relationship
6. Dont try to understand how attraction works for women
7. Dont think it takes money & looks
8. Dont give away all your power (info)
9. Dont know what to do in some situations with women
10. Dont ask for help (i think that is what it meant).

So what were the list of DO's??

I try not to do what is on the dont list, but of course i am only a man and eons of tradition have affected my ability to change the way man works in this world

 

[Nomaster]

Firstly i think the author, not Scbababe, needs to learn to write coherently - i agree it is quite confusing the way it is phrased with double negatives and the like. I read it like this:
1. Dont try to be too much of a nice guy
2. Dont try to convince her to like you
3. Dont look for approval or permission
4. Dont try to buy her affection with food & gifts
5. Dont share how you feel too early in the relationship
6. Dont try to understand how attraction works for women
7. Dont think it takes money & looks
8. Dont give away all your power (info)
9. Dont know what to do in some situations with women
10. Dont ask for help (i think that is what it meant).

So what were the list of DO's??

I try not to do what is on the dont list, but of course i am only a man and eons of tradition have affected my ability to change the way man works in this world

I got through that part of the code.
I just don't understand after about three levels of "What is really being said?"
"Is what is being said really what is meant?" "What are the percentages that I'll meet a woman who agrees with the general principles?"
How do I discover 'her' rules.
Will they change?
Will I receive notification?
Oh so many more questions.
Oh! My! My! My!
The sun is so bright!
I'll put my head back under my pillow now.

Tom

 

[Scubaguy62]

Ladies & gent's I was going thru my e-mail the other day and came across this: Top 10 do's and don'ts for men! I will list them for you so you may see what men are reading as the best strategies to try... Ladies braze your selves....

These are the writers "Top 10 DON'Ts"; Here goes...

1.Don't try being to much of a nice guy.
2.Trying to convince her to like you.
3.Looking to him or her for approval or permission. "(yeah right!)"
4.Trying to buy her affection with food & gifts.
5.Sharing how you feel to early in the relationship!
6.Not "getting" how attraction works for women.
7.Thinking it takes money & looks. "(well it does help)"
8.Giving away all your power (meaning too much info.)
9.Not knowing what to do in a situation with women.
10.Not getting help!

Although, I found these helpful for ladies as well..When I read this I said to my self, poor guys.. They have to learn this before they get the girl and if you continue to do this, if you get the girl? (meaning mariage). Boy, will loose girl! (lol).... Ironic aint it!

I'd like to hear what you guys think of this, ladies you too!

Babe, I have to say something on this...

1. The first thing that comes to mind is Hefty's commercials "whimpy whimpy whimpy."
2. True. Try the opposite!
3. Won't ask for approval or permission if I'm interested in sushi and she doesn't. There are plenty of other "cooked" meals at a Japanese restaurant. But, when it comes to china patterns........better stay out of the way.
4. Is that how women see a man's gesture to get them something nice, or take them to a nice place, just because he wants to???
5. Or late in the relationship. Too early shoots you in the foot. Too late discredits you.
6. That's like going to war without a plan to win the peace...I'm certain I've heard that before..
7. It doesn't? Well, maybe it doesn't, but it sure helps. They say money can't buy you happines, but it can certainly buy you the things that make you happy, so in a round about way, it does buy you happiness.
8. That's a paradox. There is just no way for us guys to win, 'cause women will almost certainly not be pleased with what we do, or don't do. Catch 22
9. That's simple...just agree. If it doesn't work out, you can always say "thank you." (maybe, we'll get a hug, just like on the TV commercial)
10. Help? Baby, I'd rather consult mapquest than ask for directions from someone who may be a registered sex offender.

All in all, I'm glad we have the relationship we have scbababe.. I wouldn't trade you in for anotherone like you, although I don't think she exists anyway, 'cause God made you and broke the mold in a hurry