AfterDark
Contributor
For your feet, I'd echo what Hawkwood and TNRonin are saying: Don't stuff too much into your boots. You'll be colder with too much insulation. You need to be able to wiggle your toes, otherwise you'll cut off circulation and you'll be cold.
Also, I'd look into an extra undergarment and/or a little more weight to accommodate more air in your suit. If you start getting on the cold side, your hands and feet are the first parts your body will sacrifice. "If your feet are cold, put on a cap" is a very good advice topside, and the mechanism behind it is equally valid underwater. If the rest of your body is nice and warm - a lot warmer than "just not freezing" - your hands and feet will be a lot warmer as well.
I found long ago that if my core and head are warm my feet and hands will be ok. I dive year round in NE and use 5mm wet gloves without a problem. Only wicking garments touch my skin, dry is warm. Also like another posted air space is important if you don't have enough you'll be cold. My yard stick on this is no suit squeeze. You should not feel your suit pressing against your body at all. A little too much air is better than not enough IMO.