Pinepig
Contributor
IMO if you are still playing around on "easy" sites to gain confidence, then you lack the confidence in yourself to be on your own. Stay with a buddy until you know you are ready, even if you never plan to solo anywhere but the sheltered sites.
But what do I know? You've got it all figured out...
I'm understand that you put the IMO disclaimer upfront but wouldn't playing around on the easier sites just be considered either part of your self prescribed limitations or " conservative " diver as the term you have used to hack DaleC on more than one occasion. Seems smart to me, but I don't have anything figured out.
I'm not seeing the wisdom in what seems to be your, if you can do it with two people you MUST be ready to do by yourself. There is a possibility I'm reading something into your post that you may not think are there, but apparently I'm not the only one that sees it. I'm not trying to flame you but maybe you are talking it a wee bit personal.