DaleC
Contributor
the best thing about the buddy system is that there is always someone around to second guess your decisions and help prevent mistakes. The worst thing about the solo diving system is that there isn't.
I agree that this could be true in some cases. For myself, it hasn't always proven to be the case but I take full ownership for being part of a less than functional team.
Occasionally I find buddies that I sync quite well with. Most notably nerdy types who are very into what they do but not in a boastful way. I think we appreciate and support each others passions. We are usually focused but somewhat easy about what we do, which makes each of us feel valued but when all is said and done we do what we say we will do. Sometimes they support my vintage or fish study pursuits, sometimes I support their photography.
Otherwise I prefer to dive alone because I can conduct my dives the way I want to conduct my dives. I can say I trust my own judgement to a high degree and dislike diving with others who's action cause me to subjugate it.