Clearly you were smart enough to offload him as a buddy and as a husband. If I had a partner or a buddy like that I would only dive once with them and never again. I have dived with inconsiderate air pigs before and my response once I find they are very low on air is to abort the dive and come up. I give them no choice, if they want my air they come with me or stay down without any. Then once on the deck, I refuse to dive with them again. Its one thing to run low on air and share air and come up, but another thing to run low and then expect to share air and continue the dive. My life is worth more to me than that.