Honestly, it's very simple, it's about maximising hose length, most seconds' hoses come out from the right side.
That means after you've donated, and for example you need to swim out or up out of your environment, the person can swim on your left side without any weird hose kinking.
If you donate a right sided reg with a standard octo hose, you'll notice it's pretty tight especially if the person then swims next to you.
It's also an easy way if you're using two valves on your single tank to identify where what air is coming from, the 'no crossing of the hoses' is an old concept, but used to be quite popular.
You'd run drysuit and primary on right post and octo and bcd on the left post.
If you're gonna run secondary donate, running the octo from the left side is far superior imo.
The best system if you're gonna run a classic secondary setup like this would be running a non handed reg from the left side (cyklon, oceanic, whatevs) with a longer hose than usual (for example 1m20 and stowing the excess under your belt).
This is ofcourse just my opinion and take it with a grain of salt, but here I have made some artistic drawings to show what I mean.
First option:
Second option for more hose length (cross clipping)
NOW WE HAVE OOA , exit the environment, your friend can just swim to your left without any kinks and maximising hose length.
If the hose comes from the right side you have some wonky, weird kinking **** going on.
At the risk of angering the entire forum. The solution if you want secondary donate to be more efficient and right side routing to work properly, is something like a Mares loop. or a left side regulator routed on the right side,