I completely agree. It seems like my ears can only have water touching them for a good 30 mins to an hour. I dont know if that has happened to anyone else or not. I tried the pro plugs but they did not seal my ears all the way. The pro ear mask does leak a little by the nose but cleaning it every few minutes isn't a big deal. I spoke to my instructors and they seem to think if the ear cups come off at 50 feet the pressure will damage my ears. But since its equalized the same as my mask wont it still be equalized the same?Hmmm, it's starting to sound as though you can equalize, and your problem is something else. Something to do with (cold?) water irritating your ears?
If this mask works for you, awesome. Still might be worth a little more digging to find the exact source of the problem.