Well, around here, a lot of shops require a bribe to be paid (I assume you're talking nitrox, not 100% 02). You pay them the bribe money, and they'll fill your tanks with nitrox. To prove you paid the bribe, they put a big green and yellow sticker on the tank, that is otherwise meaningless. You see, the sticker doesn't really tell them if the tank is "clean", doesn't track where it's been filled, by what compressors and with what gas, so the have no way of knowing if the tank is clean or not. It just tells them that you paid the bribe, and then they'll fill it.
It's with this spirit that they will insist that only they can "clean" the tank and valve. Of course, once you take the tank out of their shop, they have no way of knowing if the tank remains "clean", but with happily fill if anyway, as long as you paid them the fee.
It's a perfect system...