Nem, when the idea of a seperate solo forum was discussed I was for it but now not so much just for the points you made. Frankly I am to the point where I think this forum should be done away with.
We go on and on about experience, equipment, locations, training but in reality it is just a personal decision. Either you do it or you don't, either you use ten tons of equipment or you use one pound of equipment, you stay shallow or you go deep, only known sites or unknown sites, just decisions, make them wisely.
I'm a newbie with 0 solo dives.But I know that I WILL solo when I think I'm ready.
Other than in person,this forum is a rare resource for (possible/future)solo divers.I would much rather decide if and when I'm ready WITH input from other solo divers.This may save my life.
"Should" or "should not" is not the topic of the forum.There WILL be solo divers and there WILL be those who fervently disagree.Fine.Please be kind enough to debate this elsewhere.
For me,I've already found diving to be a very personal experience.I've tried to find what is best for me and what I am comfortable with.I've found buddies,gear,dives,etc,that were great for what I want from diving,but were a taboo for others.That's fine too.Take what works,heed the rest,and dive the best you can.All divers are fortunate for the experience we each share.I would feel a loss if some part were dismissed for any reason.It may not be my cup of tea,but another diver may find it beautiful.