helimvee
Contributor
I'm a certified Solo diver, I trust no one but myself, and being involuntarily paired up with a diver who is now my responsibility and liability is not something I am willing to accept.
With the exception of my newly certified girlfriend and the rare trip I might take to dive with family members, I prefer to dive alone.
Being "Nice" has absolutely nothing to do with it.
I get what you mean and agree with you. I would rather have someone like you explain your position in advance of the dive and have the option to change buddies.