cardinal:
You have the wetsuit, mask, fins, snorkel etc...and now you are going for the expensive equipment - The BCD, Reg and Octo & Dive Computer/ Console.
What would you go for?
C
As you can tell from my profile (and name) I'm a very new diver, but I've totally fallen for it and get in at least a couple dives most weeks. In just the last few months I've put together exactly the items you mentioned. I don't really need regs capable of handling Canadian-style cold for where I do most of my diving, but wanted them anyway so that I could keep using my setup wherever my diving takes me.
I purchased the DSS 30# singles rig. The link has already been posted and the designer/manufacturer, Tobin, seems to always be ready with outstanding customer service. He's even a member of this board under the name cool_hardware52. He's a font of information and a call or email is always (in my admittedly limited experience) rewarded. I went with the Hog harness.
I then purchased an Uwatec Aladin Tec wrist computer. It's nitrox capable, can be programmed to varying levels of conservatism, and downloads to a PC, Mac or PDA. It can also be set to gauge mode (if your diving ever takes you in that direction) where it basically acts as a bottom timer with a stopwatch and the ability to download. I feel that's still worth the price I paid rather than getting a bottom timer, a stopwatch, and some sort of downloadable dive recorder. I really like being able to get detailed graphs of my dives on to my computer.
I just purchased my regulators and haven't even gotten them wet yet. Soon! I went with Apeks. I put together the environmentally sealed (helps prevent freezing/free-flows in very cold water) DS4 1st stage with a TX50 primary 2nd on a long hose and an ATX50 2nd as a bungeed backup. I've enjoyed my experiences with Scubapro regs a lot, but I've read and heard repeatedly that they have a tendency to free-flow in really cold (i.e. near freezing) water. I really have no experience with anything colder than 48F, so it's all hearsay to me.
I've been using a Suunto SK7 compass in the Deep Sea Supply boot and have no complaints at all.
The only thing I would've done differently is purchase a brass and glass SPG from Tech Diving Limited rather than the plastic faced Dive Rite one I picked up at my LDS. I'll probably get one soon anyway and eventually relegate the DR one to deco/stage bottles when I start using them.
Altogether that should add up to 2000 or so, leaving you enough for a high quality drysuit, which I know very little about, though I'll surely want one eventually. I'd probably get that first if I were you.
The Hogarthian and/or DIR influence is probably pretty obvious in my choices, but they've all worked very well for me so far, and should continue to know matter how far I take this diving thing. Well, that's my hope at least. We'll see.
I agree that being patient and trying out as many options as you can before buying is probably the best thing to do. I tried several different jacket style BCs and one back-inflate before buying a BP/wing setup without ever having tried one, mainly because I'd read its praises sung so highly and consistently around here. I loved it from the first dive and can't imagine ever going back. There's definitely a higher percentage of divers using them on Scubaboard than out in the "real" world.
Bear in mind that you asked what I would go for.
YMMV.
Thanks for reading as my two cents turned into a pile of change,
Adam
Edited for spelling/capitalization errors and to add that Mo2vation (who posted while I was writing the above novel) is SO RIGHT about a can light. I can't wait to pick one up for myself. I've only used one once, when he and a regular buddy of his (currently quoted in his sig line)lent me one on a night dive the three of us did. One word. WOW!