For starters I'll link to a previous post of mine:
http://www.scubaboard.com/forums/3497325-post11.html
I should add that dry snorkels are absolutely terrible for freediving. When you dive, the negative pressure that forms in the tube will suck your tongue right out of your mouth! Plus, most dry snorkels block way too much airflow. When you burst back onto the surface after a long dive you need a lot of air quickly, and some major breathing has to take place before you can make your next dive. A big bore wide-open snorkel (e.g. a simple, rigid J-tube) is the way to go. It can have a purge valve if you like, but little else. Before you buy it, test it with some deep, heavy breaths to make sure it offers minimal airflow restriction.
For freediving, especially in choppy water, I recommend keeping the snorkel in your mouth pretty much all the time. (There's no need to block the opening with your tongue when you dive - it will take care of itself.) Also, when you're on the surface keep your face in the water so you can keep an eye on your buddy and the underwater situation in general. You're pretty much useless if your face is up out of the water to breathe and you're counting seagulls (or whatever) while one of your partners is down. The main reason to remove your snorkel is to talk on the surface when all divers are up.
It's important to use a
rigid snorkel so your mouthpiece will stay in place with minimal intervention on your part. Flex-tube snorkels are best for scuba divers who need the ability to drop the snorkel mouthpiece out of the way when they insert their regulator. It's true that the majority of casual, slow-moving, light-breathing surface snorkelers can't tell the difference, but energetic snorkelers will quickly discover that most flex-tube snorkels tend to yank sideways at the mouthpiece when swimming fast, ascending fast or pushing through waves and chop. This is because the flex hose collapses against the face and changes the angle of the mouthpiece. This in turn forces the diver to bite down much harder than necessary in order to keep the mouthpiece from being yanked right out.
In contrast, with a properly fitted rigid snorkel you hardly have to bite at all - the mouthpiece remains aligned and stays right where it's needed.