Should I get a BP/W for my girlfriend who hasn't dive before?

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I would ask a couple of questions: (1) Who is going to wear it in the water? and (2) What choice will make a new diver most comfortable (easiest to handle) in *and* out of the water?

People can learn to dive with and get used to just about anything. I started out with a horse collar vest (oral inflate only, unless you were rich and had one of them fancy CO2 cartridge models that never worked), a horrible little piece of bent plastic against my back with a lever on it to tighten down a metal tank band (also unreliable), and no option for weighting but molded weights on a belt. And for people who had the money, DIY wetsuits. It was glorious.

If you can show her why you like your rig and explain how it is different from other choices, and let her try them out before having to buy anything, that's all to the good. But if a person is going to enjoy diving, they have to feel comfortable in the water as soon as possible, and next to safety I would put that first on my list of considerations. There are a lot of things that experienced divers dismiss as unnecessary or "easy to handle" or get used to, but that can add to a new diver's anxiety. I just saw somebody in a pool trying to get used to her new back-inflate BC this weekend. People who are most uncomfortable on the surface and want to ride high in the water will overinflate and then struggle against tipping forward. If they were comfortable riding lower in the water, that wouldn't be a problem. Everybody knows it's easy to figure that out, but it isn't so easy for a person who is still anxious and whose "instinct" is to add even more air to make the problem worse.

If you want her to enjoy diving, go slow and let her learn skills and equipment at a pace that fits her comfort level. You don't want to waste money buying garbage and then replacing it, but *all* of the money is wasted if the person you buy it for doesn't want to dive.
 
I agree with much that has been said so far. I also will have this situation come up in the near future. I have already taken my GF to a bunch of LDS's to check out stuff, havent steered her one way or the other yet. However my suggestions are (and what i am going to use for my GF):
1) her OW should include equipment rental in the cost, let her learn on that stuff.
2) let her rent some jacket BC's, you dive with her after cert
3) let her try on your BP/W adjusted to her size (use something to mark or measure your fit first) and you rent something to get out diving with her and let her feel it out.

Ultimately its going to be her decision, you can influence that in many ways, both by information and by allowing her experience in using the gear - then go ahead and buy according to that. Try to show her comfort over your street clothes in the LDS standing up with all the weight on is not the same as a quick hike to the shore/off the boat and a more comfortable support UW where it really matters.
 
Not just no but *!@#! no.
Not because a BP is a bad BC but after 25 years of marriage I can tell you it's never a good idea to decide "for" her....not if you ever want to hear the end of how she hates it. Trust me, let her decide and accept what ever she choose, you will be much happier.
 
I'll have to agree with those who say wait ... let her get certified first, then let her try a few different BCD's and BP/W's, then let her decide which one she prefers.

Keep in mind that if you do go with a BP/W, she should try it out first. Not all backplates are built for a woman's torso. Lengths vary, and some are shaped such that they dig into a woman's hips.

... Bob (Grateful Diver)
 
Once she gets certified and starts thinking about buying her own gear, she will (on her own accord) ask you why your BP/W are different than the rental jackets she has been using. Then you can tell her, and let her try it sometime. Let her make the decision herself, and she'll be happier with it.
 
I say if you can get a BP/W for your girlfriend, go for it. Sounds like a good trade to me :D
 
herman:
Not just no but *!@#! no.
Not because a BP is a bad BC but after 25 years of marriage I can tell you it's never a good idea to decide "for" her....not if you ever want to hear the end of how she hates it. Trust me, let her decide and accept what ever she choose, you will be much happier.

***ONLY ADVICE YOU SHOULD LISTEN TOO!!*** :07:

I just converted to BP/wing and my husband had for a year prior. He never pushed it and let me try it first. I traded in my Zeagle for one eventually. It will be a win win situation if you let her get there on her terms.
 
Hi guys,

Thanks so much for the great advice. The let her try and then decide on her own is the best advice, besides, there a lots of really cheaper non BP/W bcs out there available in Singapore should she not decide to get BP/W system.

Fortunately she is stubbon and independent enough that she would tell me what she wants or not.

I tried to impress upon her to get a wetsuit for this trip but she said no as only her friends who are really serious about diving have them... getting a rake from a fire coral and other nasties isn't funny but she does not think a wetsuit is necessary yet!

Say mrobinson, if she rather get a jacket or back inflate, is your bc still available (provided her sizing is similar to yours)?

Thanks again for all your help and I'll just let her make the decision on her own.

Best regards,

SangP
 
SangP:
Say mrobinson, if she rather get a jacket or back inflate, is your bc still available (provided her sizing is similar to yours)?SangP
Thanks for asking me! email me at april16@shaw.ca
 

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