Thank you guys,
I'm not at all certain at this point in time whether or not I'll do tech. dives or (purposeful) decompression dives. ( I DO have the interest/fantasy for sometime in the future...) For the present I would use a pony as bail out/back up insurance when diving with new/unknown buddies. I'm still meeting and getting together with buddies for the lst time.
Even with experienced buddies who are good buddies, there are moments when we are separated a bit (not by my choice!) and I just like the idea of knowing that I could go to my pony reg on my way over to letting a buddy know that a problem exists, then opting to air share or surfacing together with me on my pony.
By the same token, because I may eventually do AOW and deep diving I wouldn't mind getting comfortable with slinging a pony now.
I'll keep looking at 30s vs. 40s as I'm not in a big hurry to purchase yet, but I figured a 30 would do me for a long time to come...if the length of a 40 sort of "disappears/is unoticeable compared with a 30, I'd be open to that.
On dive charters, I occasionally find myself diving "solo" due to a "just met" inattentive buddy. So, all in all, I think having a pony will be a good path for me now and to get skills ready for down the road.
DA Aquamaster, could you explain what makes the math using a 40 more complicated than for a 30?
Regarding thin/vs. "fat", my initial feeling was that it was nicer to be able to bring my arm in closer to my body and maybe find that less obtrusive/tiring over the length of the dive...
Thanks again for the advice and info. I have decided for sure to include a pony in my rig so now it's a matter of deciding on which size and capacity.
I still will depend on buddy teamwork first, but from what I've been seeing, unless I am lucky enough to have truly teamwork oriented buddies ALL the time, I want a pony too.