I thought prehaps I would update where things are presently with my trials and tribulations in caring for my Dad, my Mom, and myself.
We finally completed after one bronchoscopy that could not obtain anything for a biopsy on Dad, 6 high intensity radiation treatments, another biopsy that the tissue sample returned as underterminable, and finally a needle biopsy under CT. The needle biopsy was done two weeks ago this coming Tues. On Friday, 9/3 my Dad was given the diagnosis of adenocarcinoma of the lung, which has spread to the mediastinum and the mediastinal lymph nodes. The plan begin chemo therapy and concurrent radiation treatments. He began the chemo on Wed. 9/8 will recieve one treatment per week for 3 weeks, take one week off, then get three more weeks. During this time he will be getting radiation daily Monday thru Friday's. So far things are ok. He has great spirits and hope for being given some time to finish what he is here for. He feels his work is not done.
Next my Mom has Alzheimers and is in an assisted living home. She has had some increased changes in her behaviour and that is causing some concern for her caretakers at her home. She has been found lying on the floor several times, never has been seen to fall and she is always not hurt in any way. She also, has been yelling, and moaning loudly alot. We have an appointment for her Dr. to evaluate her on Monday. Hopefully, he can offer something to help. Most of the time she is very quiet and docile, but occassionally she becomes very hostile or combative. She does not know any of us and that makes it even more difficult to see her this way.
Now, I have an enlarged thyroid gland that we had worked up in July. From the labs and the scans it is a benign thing and caused by an autoimmune response. I have an appointment with an endocrinologist on Tues. to see if he recommends any treatment at this time for it. I have had this for several years and it really does not cause me any problems. My surgeon was concerned though and he suggested we get it worked up. Hopefully this will not mean any surgery, I don't have anymore time I can take off from work to deal with this. As a matter of fact I don't have any left to deal with my family's illnesses. Some weeks now I am just off on leave without pay, they had to put me in for use of the Family leave Act on an intermittent basis for the next year.
Well, other than those things I think I am ok. I am a bit more edgy and tired than normal. I have tried to get out and exercise, but it has only worked on one or two days a week for me. As for my eating plans, I have been concentrating on seeing that my Dad eats well so he does not lose weight. So, I am just hanging on.
I hear him stirring so I need to go check on him. I appreciate all of you being here to listen out for me.