Rich...
We've disagreed on velcro wear on another thread a little while ago.
http://www.scubaboard.com/showthread.php?t=33855
Although I can't comment on the wear of the velcro on your particular ProQD (because I haven't seen it), I'm basing my comments on the wear of the velcro of 4 Pro QD+s (mine and 3 other divers in my dive group) that are 2~3 years old and have 100~150 dives on them.
Velcro wears out; it's just the nature of velcro (it's kinda pointless to argue this).
I will concede that improper maintenance may accelerate wear. But, after each day of diving, I soak my BC for about 30 minutes in freshwater, and slosh the inside of the bladder with freshwater. The BC then goes onto a BC hanger to dry in the shade, and the inflator hose soaks in the sink for a few hours. I think the care I give my BC is normal and reasonable.
Rich, you have never mentioned how many years and how many dives you have on your ProQD. I'd previously assumed that you did not have very many dives on your BC because, in the other thread, everyone that wouldn't ackowledge velcro wear did not own their BC for very long, or did not have very many dives on it. In this thread, you're suggesting that you've had your BC for much longer. How long? How many dives? Do you mostly dive in freshwater? If you have been able to put hundreds of salt water dives over the course of many years on your ProQD without significant wear on the velcro, you must be doing something the rest of us aren't.
I'm sure aquasport would like to like to know your secret since he's thinking about getting the ProQD+. I would certainly like to know because, I don't want to have to keep sending my BC to SeaQuest to replace the velcro every other year.
FYI: I've redistributed my weight so that I only have 6lbs of lead in each pocket. I'm hoping this will put less stress on the velcro.