caveseeker7:
When you first decent, halt around 15 fsw and visually check his rebreather for a leak.
Caveseeker7 makes a good point - but more to this point is to have him show you where to look prior to the descent; a Dolphin, for instance, may vent between the hoses, depending on conditions, and it's normal. On the other hand, bubbles from the first stage, the hose fittings, or anywhere else is a bad sign. Closed Circuit units shouldn't vent on descent at all...
Make sure your buddy also does a "wiggle" or a "shimmy" manuver and then a full 360 degree pivot while you do the bubble check on him during the descent. Sometimes air gets trapped in the unit which can look like a bubble or two.
Generally, rebreather training addresses the "buddy" issues - in that he should've been told how to brief an open circuit buddy properly. Just make sure he gives you a good briefing, and you should be fine; he should tell you what to look for, where to check, and a quick run through of emergency procedures. One thing to note is that generally, rebreather divers more self-sufficient, in that on a properly equipped unit, you have more resources for failure handling than OC divers, but there is, of course, more that could fail.
My girlfriend dives open circuit with me all the time, and I will only dive on a rebreather. There's no good reason not to pair up, except for my greed for bottom time
I hate the noise of the open circuit bubbles, the up-and-down buoyancy changes with breathing, and the bubbles scaring off the critters I'm photographing. I like my underwater time to be as silent and long as possible. She prefers the ease of setting up and cleaning up the gear (dip, dunk, and done) for OC gear, its simplicity, and she gets cold in the chilly Northwest waters after 45 minutes to an hour, even in her crushed neoprene drysuit. We still do just fine together as a buddy pair; I just live with the more-or-less one hour limitation she has, and she indulges my need to occasionally dive with another rebreather diver for those two hour+ adventures.
I would strongly disagree that RB usage is outside the recreational diving limits. I think that if you do dive a rebreather, you have a responsibility to dive more frequently than someone who dives open circuit, as there's just more going on and more skills necessary to survive. On the other hand, now that non-tec agencies are offering certifications, and coupled with units like the Drager Dolphin, which are limited by design to a rougly recreational depth and/or profiles (and are rather unsuitable for using for decompression purposes on your back gas), I think they're fully appropriate to advanced recreational divers. I don't do tec profiles, I don't make decompression dives, and yet I wouldn't even think about going to open circuit gear in open water for the type of diving I do. I don't even own a full set of OC gear, in fact...