OneBrightGator, I pick up a critical tone as well.
When I was first diving, I had a lot of buoyancy problems. I blew a lot of stops. I knew in advance that it was likely. Anybody I dove with got told that. What should we have done, planned that anybody diving with me should put themselves at the same risk I was taking? I remember one dive where I corked and my buddy sat at 20 feet for a minute, and ten feet for a minute -- I could see him, he could see I was okay. I didn't have any problem with what he did.
I'm taking Rescue right now, and one of the prime concepts is not to create a second victim. Seems to me that, if someone is worried that there will be a problem, you have two options -- either don't dive at all (which won't solve the issue, if practice is what one needs) or set things up so you don't end up with two injured divers at the end of the dive, especially if the attempted intervention of the second diver is likely to be ineffective. Nobody except my original instructor ever succeeded in hauling me back down once I was going up . . .