rmarrs:I know this isn't exactly prudent to the situation, but it is an example of the flaws in the legal system.
My grandmother-in-law loaned her car to her grand daughter (cousin of my wife) so she could go on a date. The date went horribly, and she wound up going to the bar. She got drunk, fell asleep in the parking lot. The police woke her up, told her to go home, and wound up being ticketed for loitering and threatened to be arrested if she didn't drive the car home. She drove home, and hit and killed a pedestrian. My grandmother-in-law was sued for everything she had, and they won.
Your grandmother-in-law had a terrible lawyer. She should sue him for malpractice.
Dave