You seem to be missing the whole point about a pony bottle, or a deco bottle as it was first described.
You can 'sling' as larger cylinder as you like, if your first stage fails you are still left underwater without air. A pony's contents should not be included in your general dive plan, it is for emergency use only.
However, by the sounds of what you are planning, you just need to use the same equipment as all the other divers in the party, which will usually be a single cylinder.
Yes, ultimately you are responsible for your own activities underwater, but if they are guided dives, you will be diving to the guides plan.
If you are not happy with that maybe you should consider an alternative trip.