Anecdote that may help (or not). I dive with a long hose when I am penetrating, but in open water I used keep it to a short hose, mainly because the way I stow my long hose is a PITA (I'm not DIR, so apologies for the intrusion).
In January I had to do a longish swim (250 yards or so) sharing air with a diver on the short hose, and the PITA factor is heavily swung to the other side of equation when you need to use that second stage. Sharing gas may be a mercifully rare event, but you shouldn't let that drive your planning.
In January I had to do a longish swim (250 yards or so) sharing air with a diver on the short hose, and the PITA factor is heavily swung to the other side of equation when you need to use that second stage. Sharing gas may be a mercifully rare event, but you shouldn't let that drive your planning.