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Tom,
Thanks as always for your thoughts. Interestingly enough, both dive operators (Key West and Grand Cayman) gave the girls steel tanks, but they wore 6 pounds in KW, 4 pounds in GC. We did do a quick buoyancy check at GC; in KW we were told not to delay descending due to the surface chop.
My nausea came after about 20-25 minutes at depth and it came out of nowhere. 15-20 minutes after being back on the boat, en route to the second dive site, the nausea and fish-feeding was done completely, yet the seas were still choppy. So I'm still leaning toward bad air, especially since none of the snorkelers got ill but all of the divers did.
We're signed up to do the Adventure Dives (for the kids) and AOW for me (they REALLY don't want to do the deep or night dives at the Bainbridge Quarry in PA; it's dark and cold even at 30 feet, but they do want to practice peak performance buoyancy, navigation, and search and recovery. We'll get better with this whole weight thing, I know it.
Thanks again for your thoughts!