Here's another scenario: Through experience, I've discovered that there are usually two places on an unbalanced second stage like this one where you can (usually) get the poppet to seal up and have a very good breathing effort.
The first would be where the nyloc nut on the end of the poppet stem has only one or two threads showing and the spring is not compressed very much. The spring cannot apply a whole lot of force to close the poppet because it is not compressed a whole lot. The poppet assembly is relatively long, the oriifce is not screwed in very far, and the reg is very easy to breathe--but also not real tightly sealed against free-flow.
The second scenario is when the nut is down about five threads or so on the poppet stem. This will compress the spring more and make it apply more force to the poppet seat when the demand lever is not depressed. The added force helps keep the seal between the orifice and the seat. The technician compensates for the relative shortness of the poppet assembly by screwing the orifice in to meet the poppet. Caution: this setup may make the reg a little harder to breathe on, so be aware of this.
I have "fixed" more than a few unbalanced second stages with this technique and haven't heard too many complaints from customers about the way the regs breathe, so it must be working.
As always, I'll close by stating that tuning a second stage is always a juggling act between ease of breathing, complete sealing when not inhaling, and the ability to purge the reg comfortably. You can't enhance one without detracting from another. As usual with the physical world, you can't get something for nothing.
Good luck!