Some divers plumb their bailout valve to their offboard bailout gas supply, and make that their primary means of bailout. Others might choose to plumb their BOV to their onboard diluent tanks, and use the BOV for sanity breaths only. Onboard tanks are typically 20cf or less, and most likely will not have enough gas to sustain an OC ascent. Other divers might have gas shut-offs, manifolds, or gas switching blocks routed to their BOV. Many ccr divers, like myself, do not use a BOV. (gasp!)
If you have no plan with your ccr buddy, or you should happen to stumble across a ccr diver unconscious underwater, a dil flush is always the best idea. For recreational depths, a dil flush should always provide a breathable gas to the CCR diver, and will correct a hypoxic or hyperoxic loop. Dil flushes are the most basic skill taught to a CCR diver. I even saw one rebreather diver who placed a "press to rescue" label pointing towards his diluent addition button.
Don't worry about trying to figure out how to dump counterlungs. It's too much to ask from a task loaded diver trying to perform a rescue on an unconscious diver with unfamiliar equipment. Dumping the counterlungs incorrectly could result in flooding the loop, and a very negative unconscious diver. Most CCR's have an over-pressure relief valve to vent expanding gas from anyway.