For me if the dive is a go with a buddy, then it is a go solo also.
With that said, as I get older I tend to be more conservative about what dives are a go or no-go.
Yesterday was a perfect example of what my husband and I consider outside of our envelope, regardless of solo or buddy-ed.
After my husband completed his solo dive, we were slowly cruising to the location for my solo dive. I'm gearing up when I noticed a group of dive flags with no vessel close to them. I mentioned to my husband and we decided to approach.
Usually our philosophy is mind your business but this group was relatively alone floating on the surface with no vessel attempting reasonably close or anyone attempting to approach.
So slowly we get close until we can hear each other, asked if they were ok, and their response was yep, we're good, boat is over there. Over there was a couple of miles north and the current was going south, so the distance between them was not closing. Their answer was good enough for us, so we proceeded back to our path to my dive site.
That event gave us a subject to talk about, neither my husband nor I would like to have a boat so very far away from the flag, not in South Florida, much less relatively close to an inlet. Felt their way was very unsafe, but that was their way.
The question for us is not about dive emergencies or comfort in the water, it was about the boat traffic and the amount of people that cruise as fast as their boat can go, and are not very good at spotting dive flags.
Maybe derailing the thread some, but there's more to solo diving than having gas redundancy or certification. BHB comes to mind, it may be an amazing dive site but it is in a tricky side on town, I wouldn't be alone in that parking lot in the dark.