Quite frankly I have no idea what the "sign" for a 3 min 15 ft stop would be. I'd probably understand yours, and I'd have little trouble making a sequence that would convey the idea ... but lots of foreigners are used to saying "yes, yes, yes" even when they've not the vaguest idea of what you're saying.
As far as safety stops are concerned ... as one of those who was in on originating them, let me tell you truth. The idea of safety stops came out of some research that showed that recreational divers were, in point of fact, making their ascents between 100 and 120 feet per minute, back when a standard ascent was 60 fpm. I think it was at the AAUS Decompression Computer Workshop that Bruce Bassett suggested perhaps a stop between 20 and 10 feet for two to three minutes would be as effective as actually getting divers to slow down to 60 fpm. In addition it would cover most errors of one depth too deep or one time too long.
Then along came dive computers with ascent meters and such and the reason for the stop was forgotten, just the procedure was remembered.
Do I do "safety" stops? Sometimes, but far from always. I try to be fairly rigid about my ascent procedures, safety stops are for when something has made me sloppy and I want to be extra careful.