Thanks all for the responses.
My trim is pretty good. As evidenced by video, I am horizontal. I hold my fins and exhale to descend. I am going to try some of the weighting exercises once I am off vacation mode. I did a 100 foot wreck dive today and didn't feel like I was descending too fast. I can't "duck dive down" because I need to look up when I equalize (otherwise the tubes don't open, probably because of the way I'm built, it is what it is)
I think I'm going to tell the weight nazis to chill and wear 16 lbs. When I wear 14 the DM has to hold two for me to do my safety stop with, which can't be fun for her.
On another note, I just did my 35th dive. I've only been diving two months, but I've learned a lot. I'm doing 20 more here in Utila and 30 in Roatan next month. I hope I can get some weight off by then, but if not, I'm just going to keep on I guess with the 16 lbs.
It is what it is.