gunnelfish:
I did my first nitrox dive last weekend. I never gave it much thought but after the dive my dive buddie told me that he was not very happy with me. He said that he didnt think id should be diving nitrox if he wasnt. He said it wouldnt safe for him to use my octo if he every had a problem.
Your friend can feel "safe".
Actually your friend is "SAFER" breathing your octo.
Just keep in mind that YOU have to call the depth, and HE will have to call time.
and you both dive your OWN gas tables, ie you dive your nitrox tables, and he dives his air tables.
different gas = different tables... ALWAYS
aslong as he is calling time and you are calling depth then there is no additional risk as far as i can se.
There are two scenarios here (actually 6 but lets not dig in)
scenario 1
he needs your octo.
you two have been diving and hes first stage explodes into a bubble storm.
he takes your octo.
pros = ofgassing quicker when you are on your way up and less ongassing. (in practice this is accelerated deco but within NDL)
cons = None
scenario 2
you need his octo your first stage explodes into a bubble storm
Pros = you have ongassed less nitrogen than him prior to
cones = you now ongass faster and you offgas slower, but you are now at his "slower" pace wich means that you are in no harm anyhow.
simplified
so conclusive
aslong as you plan and execute the dive with your MAX depth and his MAX time you will always be better off than both of you on air.