Now I'm terrified of diving in a group...
Skittl1321, be not afraid.
Reading Threads here on SB can be misleading.
Just stay within your training. Do dives that you are comfortable doing. Over time, you acquire more confidence and skill.
I would encourage taking additional classes as well.
Recreational SCUBA is a fairly safe activity. Yes, it can kill you, but you can minimize your risks by diving safely.
Keep diving.
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... I'm getting as much local diving in as I can.
Good. Local dive, presumably a quarry in Iowa, is terrific. It will give you experience and a chance to work on your skills, especially your buoyancy skills.
This thread, has made me scared of OTHERS...
Skittl, I'm concerned that this Thread might be scaring you away from diving.
I conduct dives in Florida. If you and your husband should find yourselves in Florida and you want to do some dives with me and my Instructor-pals, you and your husband are welcome to join us. We would make sure that you and your husband had some fun, easy OW dives. Just PM me.
Of course, there would be no fee. Whatever you do, don't let these Threads scare you.