Here's my single experience on the manta dive:
Do the mantas congregate in one area?
As stated earlier, the old airport and the Sheraton seem to be the two big sites. The dive boats go to the old airport site, hotel guests and catamaran passengers go to the shore just off of the Sheraton patio.
Do the dive ops all fight over the same area each nite, or do they take turns going to different areas or diving different nites?
A bunch of them share the same area, there are several mooring lines, but if there are more than 3-4 boats, they often tie to moored boat (discretion of the captain whether to allow that)
Do the dive ops feed the mantas or is it just the lights that bring in the krill/plankton and the mantas feed off that?
Just the lights. You shine them up to attract the plankton, and the mantas come swooping in.
Do any of the dive ops have a policy if you don't see mantas they take you out another time? (Some dive ops in south africa have a guarantee that you will see a great white, and if you don't they take you out again for free.)
Mine didn't, and the water was so clear that we didn't see any mantas. But they take you on a night tour of the reef if the big guys don't show up, and I was totally pleased with that. When I got back to the hotel (we stayed at the Sheraton) my GF said she was on the patio watching the mantas splash playfully on the surface.
Is there a "better" dive op to do a manta dive with, or are they all about the same?
I went with Jack's Diving Locker, they did a good job. Dunno about the others, but it seems like every dive op in Kailua-Kona was out there that night.
I'm very interested to hear about any suggestions you might have! Thanks for you help!
If you're usually properly weighted, give yourself at least 5lb extra. It's almost impossible to kneel on the bottom otherwise, and you can't even pick up some rocks for additional ballast case lava rock weighs nothing. I couldn't stay still in the slight surge and was getting push into all manner of giant moray eels and urchins.