I don't think you told us what the problem with the other diver who didn't communicate properly was. What happened?
He was the bigger concern to me, both during that dive and going forward to the next dives. The guy with the borrowed drysuit will have his own suit back before we do another dive. We already decided on that. His buoyancy control isn't "top shelf" but with his own gear it was good enough. He's also been beating himself up about that dive for the last couple of weeks so I'm sure he'll be 100% focused on the next time LOL. We've also decided to change the plan and the approach to the dive such that we're taking a step back before going forward again.
The issue that the other diver had is that he was experiencing vertigo. He wasn't sure what brought it on, but he was sure he wanted to turn back. He was next to me when we reached 40m. He turned to me, shook his head "no" and then gave a sign that I wasn't familiar with. It looked like "something wrong" with fingers held like "hang loose". I initially didn't know if he wanted to call the dive or to switch to a bail out gas. Then he turned tail to start swimming back the other way.
He didn't wait for a response. What added to the confusion at this point is that it happened at exactly 40m at exactly 20m. So we spent a few seconds trying to figure out if he had misunderstood the planned depth at which to turn or the planned time at which to turn. The dive was planned to 50m for 25m.
Another factor that contributed to my initial confusion is that this diver is not doing the trimix course. He's already trimix certified but he's working on becoming an instructor. So on previous dives our instructor had given him instructions to deviate from the plan to see how we would respond. So when he first made the turn I thought it was a planned challenge.
So when he initially turned to go back my first reaction was to make eye contact with the instructor and give him a "what" sign. He signed to me that he didn't know what he was doing in such a way that I was sure that this wasn't part of an exercise. Since I'm the quickest of the group I caught him up and tackled him, asking him to stop for a second. I initially signed "ok" to him and he signed back "ok" and then "something wrong". I then put my reg up to his ear and called out "what's wrong", which I thought he could understand. He then signed "something wrong" again and indicated that he wanted to call the dive and swim back over the bottom. I then called in his ear "how can I help you" and he repeated that he wanted to swim back over the bottom.
This wasn't the plan but given that he was experiencing vertigo I understood after the fact why he didn't want to make a mid water ascent.
I still need to run through this scenario again with the team because I'm very unhappy with how we dealt with this. The dizzy diver had a computer and I have enough understanding of the dive that we were doing that I could have gone back over the bottom with him and rolled up a new ball-park plan enroute. I knew there was more or less a 1:1 relationship between time spent under 10m and time spent above 10m on this kind of ascent because I've done a fucton of dives at these depths and times on air/nitrox before. I had also noticed it when I was rolling up the table for this dive so between his computer and my ballpark idea of the amount of deco I would have needed to do, I could have gone with him.
I didn't have the skills to communicate this to the instructor. He knows me very well, as I said before, so I think if I could have found a way to communicate to him that I thought we should split up the team and that I wanted to go with the other diver and that I would be ok, that he would have taken that leap of faith. As it was, I I suggested again to Mr. Vertigo that he should come with us but he insisted that he needed to swim back over the bottom. At this point the team needed to make a choice. This diver was utterly refusing to make a mid-water ascent. 2 other divers were on tables and this contingency hadn't been discussed. Basically we had to chose between :
a) all 4 of us going back over the bottom
b) me going back with him while the instructor took the other student on the planned ascent
c) the instructor going with him and leaving the two students to do their ascent unsupervised
d) leaving him to swim back over the bottom and the other 3 divers sticking to plan
We chose for plan d.
He needs not only to communicate better, but also think of the others and what's best for everybody and take advice in consideration, not just decide "I'm doing this and the others can just follow me or not." Maybe the instructor could have stepped in when that happened.
Well... I don't think we could have foreseen this scenario. I think his judgement that making the ascent mid-water would make things worse may have been right, given the circumstances. I'm not sure the instructor would have been able to change his mind about this.
R..
---------- Post added December 26th, 2014 at 05:09 PM ----------
One last thing.
I'm actually happy I started this thread, despite the damage to my ego.
It's really hard to write about a dive that got off the rails when the internet is full of armchair quarterbacks and stories about how people portray themselves as being perfect. So there you go. I'm not perfect. I considered keeping this to myself but I want to take all the lessons from this that I can. I've gotten some good food for thought on this thread and ultimately it's about the goal.
I don't feel the least bit inclined to assign blame for this incident. Who is to blame, or who failed the team... none of that matters. My hope is that, on the one hand, I'll never experience something like this again, and maybe... just maybe... we might become a little more open about discussing our failures.
I don't know about the lot of you, but I'd rather learn about stuff like this online, safely behind my computer, than to have to deal with it in the water.
R..