Begin With a Review and a FRIEND...
You know, I am a highly respected person in my community (No laughing, ID), and I am even a Boy Scout Leader as well. Of anyone, I would consider "myself" beyond reproach or question. With that in mind, I WOULD NEVER ASK A YOUNG LADY TO GO DIVING WITH ME WITHOUT ASKING HER TO BRING AN ESCORT. Film, or no film. Call me prudish, call me old fashioned, but I would never put another human through the misery of trying to figure out my motives. Do everything in the open and there can be no questions.
In the Scouts, we have a concept called "two deep" which has nothing to do with diving. It means that there are ALWAYS at least two adults (or more) in the presence of a minor. Under NO CIRCUMSTANCES is this rule to be compromised. Whenever we send a boy to run an errand on a campout, or let him go hiking HE HAS TO HAVE A BUDDY. It only makes sence and its safe. In the same way, never go diving without an escort YOU know and trust. People who have ulterior motives do NOT like company. They want to crawl under a rock like a cockroach when the light hits them. Your buddy is your light.
We can't weigh all of the variables for you... you're a grown woman and we believe in your ability to make the right decision. Just please be careful... we want to read your posts for a LONG time to come!