typically i won't dive with anyone not equal to, or higher than my experience level. my regular dive buddies are rescue up to instructor level divers. i don't like babysitting ow, aow, or similar classification divers, with fewer than say 50 dives. it has completely ruined my day in the past, when i have done so. and i don't want my enjoyment of the sport in general to be compromised. hence, the reason why i haven't pursued dm certification. when i spend my hard-earned bucks on boat trips, i want to get my money's worth, doing what i want to do, when i want to do it, and where i want to do it. i have enough trouble dealing with newbies stumbling and bumbling and always under foot on the surface, let alone underwater on life support equipment. just not my thing. saving/rescuing somebody however, is a different story. i have dove off of several boats here locally, and most of the captains and dm's know me and don't hassle me when i choose to go over the side solo. i'm comfortable with it, and so are they. not any different if i were a photographer, and dove solo which many do. many times, none of my dive buddies have been able to join me on boat trips, and as such, if i didn't go diving on my own, i'd be left staring at the walls. i simply won't let other people's schedules, commitments and flakiness dicate my opportunities as to when i am able enjoy my interests. the same goes for road trips on one of my bikes. i always tell people that know me, that the only way i won't come back to the boat is if something ate me. and if that is the case, a single dive buddy, more than likely isn't going to help the situation much. since neither one of can outswim whatever animal it was, and considering i would probably be already dead from loss of blood/drowning, etc. anyway, its somewhat of a mute point. sounds rather morbid, but its true. wrecks, overhead environments and some drift diving, are an exception...a dive buddy in those situations is a must. i have been in and around the ocean since early childhood swimming, surfing, snorkeling and eventually diving. i love and respect the ocean and it's inhabitants very much, but i do not fear it/them.