Minutes? Or months?
Yes, that's the question that needs answering.
If you are thinking of using radio signals to control it....basically forget it. RF does not work well under water. Your controller will have to be either wireline or fiber to be dependable.
I'm not clear how far away he needs to be from the buoy in order to trigger it, but you're right. RF has a limited range under water. If it could be a wireline then the solution becomes child's play because you can throw together a decent electromagnet with a mechanical switch from stuff you probably have laying around the house.
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