Eric Sedletzky
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If we're such a crappy country, like so many would like to make it out to be, then why is everybody trying to come here any way they can?
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I realize that Hong Kong is very different in many respects from the rest of China. I have also lived in Shanghai, but I defer to your greater experience. With those caveats, let me say that:As an American who has lived and worked in China for the last 7 years, some thoughts:
China culture:
1. People do not have the "sense of entitlement" that exists in US, and nowhere near as whiny as people in US. The people in China come to work ready to work hard to improve themselves, and expect to work for what they get.
2. Because of the lack of a credit based society and minimal social safety nets for unemployment/disability/retirement, they are a nation of savers (and some of that savings ends up becoming ownership of other countries bonds and companies)
3. Much stronger family orientation, and because there is more limited acccess to education they actually value it more.
4. Individuals are far more entepreneurial than the US and much more likely to take risks of opening their own small business, although those businesses are not usually going to be very innovative technologically. A much larger percentage of businesses in China are small, family owned than in the US.
5. People are much more concerned about relationships,and much more polite towards those that they know/meet. Interestingly though they are much more rude in public (i.e. around others that they don't know); they will cut in any line, spit all over the place, refuse to use garbage cans, etc (in a country with that many people maybe it's "every man for himself")
Who said or implied that the United States was a crappy country? I missed that.If we're such a crappy country, like so many would like to make it out to be, then why is everybody trying to come here any way they can?
In my experience, NOPE! I spent a few months in 2 different factories in Dalian and Wehai. The food served in the factory was much tastier than anything I've eaten in any Chinese restaurant here.As I read this eating General Tso's chicken with chop sticks, I wonder if our Chinese food is better than their American food.
It's a good question. As I think you know, General Tso's chicken will give you only the vaguest indication of what actual Chinese food tastes like. I expect my lunch from McSorley's any minute now, and it will taste just like the lunch I order from McSorley's when I'm in New York. But Hong Kong might not be the best indicator of what the other 1.4 billion Chinese get when they order American food.
I realize that Hong Kong is very different in many respects from the rest of China. I have also lived in Shanghai, but I defer to your greater experience.
Several years ago my company hired a young (age 23) lady directly out of graduate school who was from mainland China. She worked for us for four years and we were her introduction to American Culture. She later accepted a position in California and worked there for several years. She recently called to say that she was moving back to China but wanted to thank us for the opportunity we provided and she also wanted to share how she believed China and the United States were different and why she thought the United States was better for the average person (the commoner).
#1. As a culture Americans believe in God. According to her observations it does not matter if there is a God or not - our belief give us hope that our lives have value and that tomorow will be a better day. The Chinese people do not have that hope.
#2. We have credit cards. By that she meant that we have access to capital and if used properly we (the commoner) can finance our dreams. The Chinese people (the commoners) do not have this opportunity.
It was her opinion that these were the two things that allowed the United States to come out on top.
I thought this was insightful and that I would share.
I recall reading an article in The Economist a little while ago saying a generation of Chinese military officers had been trained to view the United States as the enemy.It is funny - I just got back from Beijing last night and whilst I was there I had dinner with a client. He was saying how people in China were always perplexed why Americans are so determined to see China as their enemy.
As if the trillions of dollars in T-bills were purchased in the spirit of friendship, rather than to manipulate the exchange rate. And as if there were so many attractive reserve alternatives to the US Dollar.So I asked him how Chinese people see America, and he replied "like an ungrateful friend." Hmmm.