Ok, a couple of thoughts that may or may not apply to you. Use or discard as applicable.
1) You are probably overweighted. Many new divers are. If that is a back inflate BCD and you are overweighted, the excess air in the BCD to keep you on the surface may be aggravating the fin issue and pushing you forward, and hence, your feet back. As you adjust your weighting, some of this issue may resolve and it may at least in part be the BCD itself.
2) if you find that descending head first, fins up, is more comfortable for you, then do it. Class is over. The instructor is not watching. This too will likely improve with time.
3) As others have said. Put the weight centered low on the back as much as possible, lower the tank and use a weight low on the tank if needed (Quero's photo). If you have trim pockets high on the tank cam band, don't use them.
4) If you plan to do mostly warm water diving, a lot of this may well resolve on its own with less neoprene.
5) All new divers have some trim issues. As you dive and make adjustments in gear, your trim will naturally change over time. You will probably find yourself adjusting weights for sometime to come. It's not you, it's the naturally evolution that comes with experience.