MissyP:
Everyone swears that "their" way is best- crawling out on hands & knees, walking backwards, walking out with fins on, taking fins off in knee deep water, etc.. I'm trying to find out what works for ME, but I'm losing my patience with shore diving! Does dealing with the surf get easier with time & experience, or am I doomed to be a boat diver?
It definitely gets easier with time & experience.
Perhaps more important than finding out what works for you, is finding out what works FOR THAT DIVESITE. A fast sloping entry has different wave action than a gently sloped entry.
I find that a key factor is how deep the water is where the shore break occurs.
If it's more than chest high, then you can put fins on inside the surf, then swim out on the bottom. If the break is shallow, then there either isn't enough surf to worry about, or it's one of those places where fins-on backward shuffle and staying on the surface works.
When the shorebreak is in chest high water, I just grit my teeth, wait until a big set of swells pass, then walk out, quickly put on fins, and hit the bottom. If a breaking swell is going to hit me in waist or chest high water, I've had best luck with turning sideways, crouching a bit, then leaning into the wave with legs a couple feet apart, and with the inshore leg firmly planted. If you get rolled, just hold onto mask and fins as well as you can. Don't bother standing up, or getting off the bottom, just slip on fins and head out.
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I've always found that coming back into shore is much easier. In a lot of places, hugging the bottom and using the surge to judge wave sets helps. Most of the time I just stay on the bottom and come in on the backside of a swell until I'm in only 3 or 4' of water