scubawife:It's great that you've had no issues with your knot system in 260 dives. Compared to the number of dives Betsy's probably done in Cozumel (she is a DM and runs her own dive op there for many years now...) she has some basis and knowledge for her comments and I'd bet thousands of dives more then most of us. Sometimes in diving it's good to try and learn from other's experience instead of having to learn by making a mistake yourself... There are enough risks in this sport as it is.
As to the knot system...
The "correct" depth for a safety stop is an estimate. If one does the math, it works out that if the 15 foot line to the buoy were going out at a 45 degree angle from the diver to the surface (and with me pulling down on the line, it would have to be a hurricane at the surface and a huge differential current speeding by just over my head to do that), then the diver would still be at 10.6 feet.
The DM's I dive with use a marked (frequently with black paint) line to their buoys all the time, and whether I use theirs or my own, I have never seen the line deviate more than a couple of degrees off the vertical, which translates to what, at most a couple of inches difference in depth?
The DM's also clip their buoy reels to their BC's, and I have never heard of a single case of a buoy being snagged by a passing boat and the diver thusly being snatched out of the water.
As to the solo diving thing...
I have never gone diving without my wife as a buddy, and she keeps me in line. If I anger a DM and a boat full of divers, it's over as soon as I leave the boat, but if I anger my buddy, then it's not over until... well, let's just say that it takes a bit longer. ;^)
Peace,