Something like this would work out very well for the both of you....I'm assuming (I'm assuming a lot). Assuming you do most of your diving in local Tampa waters or fly to blue water, like simple&clean, and you meant $1k per person. Things to avoid, in my book, are gimmicky "features" that add little or nothing. I started off wanting pockets and bags and bells and whistles and all of the gadgets. I quickly learned I had wasted my money. I've ended up with as simple, clean, and reliable as I could possibly get. I also recommend highly that you call Cave Adventurers and tell them what you're looking to get (BCDs and reg set for two). I've recommended a Backplate/wing....and before I get yelled at for daring to mention one, let me tell you that a backplate wing has little or nothing that can fail, wear out, or go wrong. It is as simple and clean as can be, adjustable, customizable, and modular. Some of the biggest dives in the world are being done on similar gear configurations, and it's still perfectly suited to a 10ft reef dive at Blue Heron Bridge and in between. For $1k per person, I've even included a dive computer (not that you mentioned it, but it's a very good deal and still under budget).
Cave Adventurers BPW - (I'd probably add stainless plate, no pockets or pouches or weight systems, 30# wing, 2" cambands, and CA Hogarthian harness)
Cave Adventurers Regs - Solid regs, nothing fancy, great price, and you can get your own parts kits if you ever want to service them yourself
Zeagle N2ition Dive computer - Good, basic computer. Nothing fancy, but you won't really outgrow it for a
long time. Hard to beat $/performance