No, I can't say I have had a female role model to follow, myself as I am progressing through my technical/ cave diving. Female tech divers, while not unheard of seem to be of a rare breed & even more so here in the mid west. Look at how many divers go on to become technical divers,.... probably less than 2%, of that probably less than 20% are female. No, around here, it seems to be pretty much all males. Does it bother me? No. I feel that my instructor & those other technical divers at my LDS are knowledgeable, safe & helpful in assisting me in reaching my goals. I have been in other male dominated sports as well. I did martial arts for 15yrs & for a good portion of that, I was the only female. I frequently had to spar with men much taller & heavier than I. It was not absolute full contact, more of controlled contact, but still I got my clock cleaned a time or two. I just got used to it & did what I had to do. I eventually went on to become only the 12th black belt under the instructor & the first female black belt there (& my instructor had been teaching the martial arts for over 30 yrs at that point). It was something wanted to do, just like technical/ cave diving is something I want to do. To me, technical diving isn't so much male & female. Sure,.... there can be some big egos here & there, but you can usually find that about anywhere. I see technical diving as more of an art, in & of itself,... a honing of skills & control of mind & body. Yes, there are parts of technical diving that can be physically demanding, but when it comes down to it, the dangers are the same for male or female.
I will also throw in another vote that your posts have been very informative & helpful. To say I really appreciate your insights, is a huge understatement. I do hope to meet you sometime in the future.