Proper (gentle) equalization is a learned skill. I had some dive week vacations turn into beach holidays half-way through due to pain and problems with equalizing. More than once during my early dive days, I was motivated to push through the pressure and pain to get on with the enjoyment that awaited by trying to equalize with great force. Those were rookie mistakes. I eventually figured out what building pressure felt like, and when to slow an descent, or make a temporary ascent. Also slowing ascents and concentrating on relaxing my head helped get rid of the reverse blocks that had once affected me. Now I hardly even need to pinch my nose for free and easy equalization. I believe also that my body has become accustomed to the expansion and contraction of the ear canals and sinus cavities. Pre-exisiitng sinus conditions or non-optimal ear health or swelling can make the process often difficult or impossible, but losing a dive or a few days of diving is better than chronic ear problems.
Go slow, take it easy, and if it hurts, stop.
Go slow, take it easy, and if it hurts, stop.