After multiple-day diving my ears get waterlogged, too. What ever you do,
do not put any object into your ears in an attempt to wick out the water, this will only lead to otitis externa (outer ear infection or "swimmer's ear" -- very painful). As the tissues inside the outer ear -- the part exposed to sea water on the outside of your eardrum -- become saturated with water they get very soft and spongy. Think of how soft and "pruny" your fingertips get after a dive. This sets up a perfect breeding habitat for infection-causing bacteria. My ENT doc recommended putting a few drops of a half 'n' half mixture of 5% acetic acid (vinegar) in 60% ethyl alcohol (rubbing alcohol suffices) in to my ears after each dive and let it sit there for a few minutes before letting it drain out. This helps restore the proper PH level to the waterlogged skin inside the ear and helps prevent nasty bacteria from taking up residence. Do not use rubbing alcohol alone. It will dry out the ears, but disturbs the natural PH balance in the ear and could accelerate infection.
To get rid of the waterlogged feeling, use a hairdryer on the lowest setting and hold it about 12" away from your ear for a few minutes. It also helps my ears to naturally drain off excess water by sleeping on my back, head elevated with a couple of pillows.
Be sure to keep super hydrated by drinking copious amounts of water and clear juices. Never force the valsalva and ascend/descend
very slowly. If you're goint to take Sudafed, choose the non-drying, non-drowsy Sudafed, not the little red Sudafed pills. Drying out your sinuses and ears too much is as bad or worse than waterlogged ears/sinuses.
If the bruised or tender feelings don't go away in a day or two, go see an ENT and have him/her examine you for otitis externa or other barotrauma.
Check the
DAN website for advice on ear problems from diving.
Good luck and dive safe!