@JohnN Full disclosure: My plan is to also stay recreational with my diving. I have no intention of cave diving. Ever. I may want to pop into the threshold of one of the larger caverns in Florida or Mexico but the whole tight overhead environment and risk associated with it is just not my bag. I think that GUE and the greater DIR path can (and should) be relevant to all divers' goals due to its stances on many polarizing diving issues. That being said, I also don't intend to ever dive solo and have no qualms about diving deep (which is, I think, where my greatest desire to train with GUE stems from).
This crucial, to me. Drinking the Kool-Aid as to diving computers can really be a disadvantage for rec diving. Some tech concepts that do not necessarily translate well to recreational diving, and the disdain for diving a computer is one of those.
If you are going to stay within recreational limits/no deco diving, pretty much everything "DIR" says about computers in those old rants is just dead wrong, or there would, literally, be hundreds of thousands of bent divers every year--which is just not going on in the real world.
The combination of nitrox and multi-level computer diving has been the best development in decades for diving safety, convenience, and, yes, longer and safer bottom times. The real-time NDL calculations shows you exactly the information you need during your dive. With adjustable conservatism you can dial extra safety margins if you desire. You can do this, even without fully understanding the computer algorithm (as all modern algorithms are equally safe in NDL diving). Such people are disdained in this very thread as "stupid" "lazy" or "ignorant"--but guess what: they dive very well and very safely, thank you.
If you personally want to acquire more knowledge about deco theory (even if you stay a non-deco diver), you can select computers with known algorithms that tie into the deco literature and to deco planning software, and adjust conservatism using gradient factors for even more control over your personal choices. You have more knowledge over what the computer is telling you, and more ability to make it tell the information you want to see. But, this is just a personal option. It makes you a more informed diver, but not necessarily a safer one than your buddy who is just diving their computer.
Bottom line, I am just as safe diving my computer on NDL dives as any tech diver doing the same dives with tables and bottom timers, and, since many dives are multi-level, I will get more bottom time to boot.
If you are going to go tech or deco diving, then entirely different concepts apply about how to use (or not use) computers.
So, keep learning. With your attitude you will become an accomplished diver. But, beware the people who claim all the answers and disdain others, especially as you are starting out. Lots of these people follow rigid rules needed for the highly dangerous tech diving world, that are not necessarily best for recreational diving. Keep your feet in the real world or your own diving. Diving physiology is fascinating. Learning the details of dive computer operation is interesting. Diving is a lifetime of personal, intellectual, technical and exploration joy. Don't make it a stressful chore or elitist thing, you will be much happier.