Huh??Don Burke:The polite way around this is to ask him to check your work after you set your gear up. That gives him the impression you respect his knowledge, whether you mean it or not.
It is not in your best interests to tick these people off before the dive.
"Excuse me, can you check my gear to see if I set it up the way I like it? I don't really respect you - just wasting your time to make you feel better."
This doesn't make sense.
Or maybe I missed my first OW class and don't remember how.
"Excuse me, I'm such a dangerous, inexperienced diver that I don't even know how to set up my own gear. So could you do it for me so no one will notice how dangerous it might be to dive with me?"
Any deck hand that gets "ticked off" for me setting up my own gear has the wrong job (fast food, maybe?).
Just MHO.
Don, you're the charter boat capt., so you would know better than me, but you would think that you would respect a diver who can - and wants to - take care of themselves?