You can look into middle cranial fossa approach if you will decide to get it treated - the highest chance of not disturbing middle or inner ear. From your symptoms - it sounds like you have vestibular schwannoma and not necessarily acoustic tumor (both are located in the internal auditory canal). I am sure you have a good neurootologist following you - his opinion would be valuable. Chances of dead ear from diving are really low (possible) so that would not discourage me from continuing to dive. Your vertigo with position changes is probably the most bothersome symptom as far as diving. There are several systems that body uses to compensate (help weak inner ear on the surface so your vertigo stops shortly after onset or preventing it from happening) . You are going to take most of them away under the water and that could really take you for a spin...
Again, I don't treat these myself. However, "acoustic neuroma" is a common term for vestibular schwannoma, although some have pointed out that it is inaccurate. There are a lot of examples of poor names in medicine that have become part of the language (e.g. cholesteatoma isn't a tumor).
Vestibular schwannoma is the technically correct term, because most of these tumors arise from the vestibular divisions of the 8th cranial nerve, not the acoustic portion. Also, these are tumors of the schwann cells that surround the neurons, and not of the neuron itself. Nevertheless, AN is very commonly used interchangeably with VS in the literature and in practice, because of its longstanding usage.
There are three approaches to surgical resection of these lesions - middle fossa, retrosigmoid and translabyrinthine. They all have advantages and disadvantages, and the choice depends on the specifics of the case. The decision about the approach would be made after consultation with an otology / neurosurgery team who has had a chance to review the scans and examine the patient.
Since all we know about the OP's lesion is that it is small and is being watched, I think that it's a bad idea to suggest a specific surgical approach in this forum.