unc-I found a few suspects (10/109) on my local craigslist. I'll take a look.
Your point re h is well taken, but I'm here looking to DIY (DIM as in myself?), so obviously I don't feel that it will kill me! It's also not the 1st...run-in with him/her. This was the worst to be sure, but (& if you're reading this h, no hard feelings) perhaps (s)he didn't intend the tone to be that harsh. I actually read the post to a friend BEFORE I responded to make sure that it wasn't just me over-reacting.
Anyway, you, & many others, have been very helpful & I'm grateful to ALL!