ElizaDoolittle
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Original post below (I didn't want to delete it all in case it's not good manners, but following LI-er's advice, I'm sticking to the facts:
61-year-old man had part of one lung removed owing to complications after pneumonia thirteen years ago. Do you think he can dive?
(Sorry, but, I know, I have a tendency to ramble.)
I've been off the forum, but not off diving, for a long time now, but I've returned here to ask for advice. I'm going to ask a medical question, and I'm aware that only a doctor, and one who knows about diving, can give a definite answer, but I'd like to have your opinions first. They will either lead to discarding my idea, or provide me with questions I may want the doctor to clarify.
At the ripe old age of 59, I've fallen in love with a spring chicken of 61, a widower (well, actually, I fell in love when I was 57). He's got two sons, one an adult, and another who's ten years old (his wife died in childbirth). We're at that point where I'm head over heels in love with him, and he clearly likes me, too, though I'm pretty sure the thought of a romantic relationship hasn't crossed his mind. Yet. I'm working on that, of course.
We have discovered we both like scuba diving, but from the beginning, he told me he cannot do it any more because of health issues. For some time, I thought he was referring to a herniated disc he's got. But I've recently found out that the pneumonia he had thirteen years ago, which I knew had been serious (he was on sick leave for over ten months), was even worse than I thought, resulting in his losing part of one lung (I have the impression he still has got most of that lung). Now I'm sure that's what he refers to when he says he cannot dive any more.
I'd like to know, do you really think it's so? I don't want to encourage him if it's hopeless, as that would hurt him (he clearly misses diving), but if there's a possibility he may take it up again, I'd love to ask him to try. Is there any contraindication, considering he didn't lose the lung because of a chronic condition, and that it happened so long ago that he must have adjusted completely to his present situation?
Thanks beforehand!
61-year-old man had part of one lung removed owing to complications after pneumonia thirteen years ago. Do you think he can dive?
(Sorry, but, I know, I have a tendency to ramble.)
I've been off the forum, but not off diving, for a long time now, but I've returned here to ask for advice. I'm going to ask a medical question, and I'm aware that only a doctor, and one who knows about diving, can give a definite answer, but I'd like to have your opinions first. They will either lead to discarding my idea, or provide me with questions I may want the doctor to clarify.
At the ripe old age of 59, I've fallen in love with a spring chicken of 61, a widower (well, actually, I fell in love when I was 57). He's got two sons, one an adult, and another who's ten years old (his wife died in childbirth). We're at that point where I'm head over heels in love with him, and he clearly likes me, too, though I'm pretty sure the thought of a romantic relationship hasn't crossed his mind. Yet. I'm working on that, of course.
We have discovered we both like scuba diving, but from the beginning, he told me he cannot do it any more because of health issues. For some time, I thought he was referring to a herniated disc he's got. But I've recently found out that the pneumonia he had thirteen years ago, which I knew had been serious (he was on sick leave for over ten months), was even worse than I thought, resulting in his losing part of one lung (I have the impression he still has got most of that lung). Now I'm sure that's what he refers to when he says he cannot dive any more.
I'd like to know, do you really think it's so? I don't want to encourage him if it's hopeless, as that would hurt him (he clearly misses diving), but if there's a possibility he may take it up again, I'd love to ask him to try. Is there any contraindication, considering he didn't lose the lung because of a chronic condition, and that it happened so long ago that he must have adjusted completely to his present situation?
Thanks beforehand!