This is an old thread I know, but it comes as close as I could to what I am faced with. This is a compressed cervical disc making it still allowing me to scuba dive with caviot. I got a gorilla brand large wagon an pickup truck. Everything has to be taking longer than back in 1980 to 2017. Certified in 1980 and seeked help with disc problem in 2017. The wagon loading and unloading plus egress land to water is only done by getting wagon to assemble everything near waters edge. All works out OK as I have dove off small boats where you teather equipment floating by bc inflated and slip in while in the water. Mostly with a sense of where stuff is and then unclip an go down the ankor line. OK fine, just finding a buddy to dive with when either they passed on or only do warm water diving. I switched to drysuit diving in the 1990's. Also, I'm not going to ask a buddy to carry my gear, just the extra time it takes me to dive now that this is so. Looking for what has been for others on how to match up with a buddy in similar cercumstanses. I would dive with another person with a disability on par with mine, but more than that I would feel uncomfortable.
My buddies are damned good about helping when I need it. Often they offer when I’ve not asked. If someone wants to move my tanks, I’m not going to refuse help! It’s actually more due to my bad knees than the sciatica. I have a cart for my tanks, but some dive sites have large, loose gravel that makes pushing the loaded cart uphill after a dive difficult. I often buy lunch if we hit a restaurant after diving or pick up the tab the next time we meet.